growing old(er) gracefully

for the four years that i was in college i was really good about going to class. that may seem like a stupid sentence to some, but not to anyone who went to college for even a semester. it is ridiculously easy to skip. my freshman, year, however, i decided that my birthday would be for me. no classes. just fun. god allowed me to be born, so i would celebrate my own life with joy and gratitude. each year, on my birthday, i only went to the classes i wanted (like choir or the religion with the really entertaining professor.) that was it.

getting a job made this little trend much more difficult. (and so has having more birthdays.) but... life is so short. while my plan for the big 3-0 has been orginally to take the day off not to play but to whine. to self-loathe. to pout. to sleep until it hurts and then get up. watch awful things on tv and eat as if for that one day, it is my full time job.

now i know that many who might be much older than 30 who stop by to give this read will not find pity on me and may even be annoyed ( i hope they made it this far.) i feel it only right to say at this point that i know i have more life to live. that is what the rest of this will be about. but surely there was a time, in some past year, be it 17 or 70 that were angry about your age. the stuck-in-it-ness of it all. that is how i felt.

but through many events and people placed in my life. i have decided to embrace my age, and each day with both hands and a smile. even if that smile is fighting through tears.

so.... two things.

1. i am making trades. how? you say...

let's hear it for a small list....

**i have, as of today at walmart, traded clean and clear for all things oil of olay.

**i am officially trading juniors for misses. my mother and sister will be proud. they have been fighting that battle with me for years. and now, amazingly, the misses clothes actually fit my body and all it's (lovely) changes perfectly. who knew?

**i am trading the desire to be a certain weight with the desire to like the way i look (mind you, not accept this current body, because i'm not happy with it, but if i'm an 8 or 10, to like what's underneath. tone and smooth. no matter the size.

**i have let go of how my life is going by me and am determined to enjoy something about each day and knowing that best is yet to come.

**i have recently discovered, although there were hints of it from time to time, that my parents are not idiots. and not only are they not idiots, they are wise. beyond my understanding. and that if i will work with them and not against them it is amazing what we can accomplish together. i love my parents and am not afraid. not permanently. and the goal is not ever. they are wonderful.

and

2. i am going to embrace that big 3-0. i am still going to take off the day from work. i might even sleep in a little. and i will either spend that day by myself or with one special someone and we'll do stupid things all day. not to hold on to youth, but to embrace all that we are. on that day. i want to ride go carts and play putt putt. watch something stupid at the movies. (like maybe the most recent disney pixar.) i want to eat way too much and something REALLY good. and 2 or three times! and i want to buy myself something, just one thing. that i have put off. that i really want. that i don't necessarily need. and i want to thank my Lord for letting me breathe. just breathe.